Song of Solomon 3:5 Do not stir up nor awaken love Until it pleases.
Man cannot force someone to love. He has to relinquish his will to have faith that God will awaken it in due season. Trying to make someone love you is only an act of control that operates through foundations of fears. It is not our job to make love awaken, it is God’s, for He is love. In other words, you cannot control God nor change a soul. Only God can.