Man truly has the opportunity to learn certain areas of the Lord’s nature when he obeys the Spirit of God while suffering. One of the true times of obedience to the will of God is, when you have the right to judge or hurt, you forgive or lend a hand instead. When man obeys the Spirit of God in times of trials or sufferings, there is a purging of the old sinful nature and a release of the new nature of Christ.
Hebrews 5:8-9 says, Though He was a Son, yet He learned obedience by the things which He suffered. And having been perfected, He became the author of eternal salvation to all who obey Him